15 Best Finger Vibrators That Will Make Me Time so Much More Fun, According to Experts

Nicoletta Heidegger, a psychotherapist specializing in sexuality and the host/creator of the Sluts & Scholars podcast. If you’re seeking some stimulation in your rear end look no further than the Destructor Plug. If name alone doesn’t convince you the size is no joke, the measurements will.

You have internal and external anal sphincter muscles; the internal one sucks things up, so your toy could get stuck if there’s nothing to stop it, Carolanne Marcantonio, LCSW, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, tells SELF. Choose a butt plug, dildo, or prostate massager that’s designed for anal sex, and be sure to lube up too, as the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. Le Wand takes pleasure and luxury seriously, so it’s no wonder it scored highly on test. Our panellists were impressed by the range of speed settings and distinctive vibration patterns there are to experiment with, allowing them to achieve orgasms that were both faster and more intense than when using other toys.

SnailVibe’s “shell” — or curved bulb — is for clitoral stimulation, while the smooth end (or lower arm) is for vaginal stimulation. When used internally, the shell can uncoil so the lower arm can penetrate the user further (note that this can only be used vaginally, not anally). The sphere on the far end, meanwhile, has buttons to control the toy. Ultimately this is a sweet little item to treat yourself with—or even to give as a gift to friends (with their consent—not everyone has a “give one another sex toys for fun” kind of friendship).

The shorter , rounded piece of the Snail Vibe Curve acts as the external arm, Weiss explains, while the straight end can provide up to five inches of penetration. The coiled shape of the smaller arm allows it to stay in contact with your clit, even as you push and pull the toy, she says. Since the entire silicone snail is flexible, you can slide the longer end in just a little, or all the way—the “shell” part of the toy unfurls as you insert the toy deeper. In my opinion, this is an improvement over other rabbit vibes that have shorter arms that can’t reach your clit unless the other end is fully inside your vagina.

Nail the timing, and a simultaneous orgasm isn’t out of the picture. Upon first glance viberators, it didn’t look much different from the many hand-held vibrators on the market, which isn’t a bad thing — but once I started to use it, I realized it was a welcome addition. Perfect for beginners and those who are more experienced, this super-affordable vibe with adjustable speeds is waterproof and perfect for foreplay. As with most sexual encounters, lube makes everything better when you’re experimenting with toys. Thanks to 20 pulsation patterns and eight different speeds, this device offers serious customization.